Coping With Grief
Although the couple were no longer together, Clapton and Del Santo shared their child's profoundly tragic death.
Clapton told Barak in 2003 he was able to work through his grief with music.
"I almost subconsciously used music for myself as a healing agent, and lo and behold, it worked," Clapton said. "I have got a great deal of happiness and a great deal of healing from music."
Although Conor's life was short, his death created a greater public awareness for children's safety.
"Use guards on windows and safety gates on stairs. It's easy, and it could prevent a terrible tragedy. Believe me, I know," Clapton said in a public service announcement.
Clapton and Del Santo traveled to England to bury their son.
Just days before Conor's death, Del Santo helped him with a letter to his father.
"And he said to me, 'What should I write?' And I said, 'Well, write I love you, Dad.' And he wrote that," Del Santo said.
"So, when we arrived in London, he receives the mail — this was after the funeral — and he, and I, was actually there. And, he opened up, and it was this letter," she said. "That moment I cannot forget forever."